If you're looking to slide into my DMs, read this page first. I like keeping my digital space organized and stress-free. Let's make sure we're on the same page.
Please do not DM me just to ask "can we be friends?" or try to force an immediate, unearned friendship. Relationships happen naturally over time through shared spaces, mutual work, or common interests. Throwing a blank friendship request at me in DMs doesn't work, and honestly, it just leaves us both with an awkward conversation.
I am not an internet babysitter. Do NOT use my DMs as an emotional dumping ground or a stage for unprompted trauma venting. If you start pulling random "anime villain" meltdowns or threatening to delete your account for attention, you will be met with a reality check, ignored, or blocked.
To be entirely blunt: I used to have a friend who used to do exactly that—constantly breaking down, trauma-dumping without checking in, and holding the chat hostage with endless emo drama. I have zero tolerance for that script anymore. I've literally had people a whole 1 to 3 years older than me act like absolute children, throwing tantrums and panicking over minor internet micro-drama while I'm just trying to watch TikTok and live my life. I am completely done being the adult in the room for people who have a head start on me in age but run backward when it comes to maturity. If you want to vent, ask first, or better yet, log off and take a break from the internet.
If you interact with me, you need to understand how I operate. I am straightforward, grounded, and fiercely protective of my space and business.
All of the strict boundaries above? They apply to strangers, acquaintances, and people trying to cross lines.
But if you are someone I deeply love—my close friends, the inner circle, the people who have actually earned their place in my life—the rules change completely. With you guys, I won't care about being "stern" or "cool" at all. In fact, I will actively be the incredibly annoying, high-energy one because I care about you so much. If you're in my circle, you get the absolute full extent of my energy, support, and chaotic affection. No filters.